How to Make a Guy Fall in Love With You – Bringing Down His Wall Until He's Head Over Heels For You
Figuring out how to make a guy fall in love with you can seem like a daunting task. Is it even possible? I mean can you truly “make” a guy fall in love with you? Some would argue that you can’t. Others would say most women don’t even realize just how much power they have over men. When a man is in the presence of a woman he is attracted to, he’s virtually helpless. It’s your femininity that will make a guy fall in love with you.
Your femininity refers to all your female traits. It’s your creativity, the way you express your emotions, the way you look, your curves, your skin, your loving and nurturing ways. It’s the way you go from beautiful to absolutely breathtaking when you dress to impress, put on makeup and perfume, and do your hair. What seems like little things are huge to men. Expressing and accentuating your femininity is the way to make a guy fall in love with you.
Men can’t stand women who complain, belittle, or manipulate people and situations. These behaviors often come from a woman who doesn’t love herself. In a man’s eyes there’s no one more beautiful than a woman who loves herself and is comfortable with who she is. Ask any man and he would take a self-confident, happy woman over an insecure “10” any day. If you want to make a guy fall in love with you, you absolutely must love being you.
The next thing is to understand men and the enormous differences that exist between men and women. He doesn’t think like you. He doesn’t value the same things. He reacts differently to situations. He has different needs. When you understand a man like few women ever will, then he can’t help but fall in love with you.
Here are some quick pointers to help you get started.
1.) Men need to feel understood and accepted for who they are. Never try to change them.
2.) Men have been conditioned to be private. Respect their privacy.
3.) Men value alone time and spending time with their buddies. Never take this away from them.
4.) Men need to feel successful in everything they do. This includes being successful at their job and at being a boyfriend, husband, and/or father. Compliment them on how good they are at things and how amazing you think they are.
5.) Men love women who take care of themselves and look beautiful just for them.
6.) Men have a need to be protectors and to make women happy. Men need to feel like you need them.
7.) Men only know how to be men. Rather than blaming, learn to appreciate their masculine qualities.
8.) Men express emotions through actions, not words. Take notice of all the little things he does for you, no matter how small. Let him know how much they mean to you.
Through understanding, acceptance, and expressing your own femininity, you can bring down virtually any man’s wall and learn how to make a guy fall in love with you.