How to Make Anyone Do Your Bidding
There are times in life we want to be in control, we want people to do our bidding without any argument or any sign of resistance. We probably have met people who are very great with considerable influence. Those who have everyone at their command, and we wonder how they do it. The question one may ask is that do these people possess a supernatural power that enables others to do their will? Are they human beings like us? Can one possess such power? You will learn a little of how to do this in this article. You’ll see some spheres of power and how one can use the power of persuasion to make you get people do anything you want them to do.
Power can mean different things to different people. To a politician looking for a vote, it means getting the large percentage of the populace cast their vote for them. To the head of an organization it may mean a different thing. To a salesman it is the ability to convince people to buy their product even if they think they don’t need it. The list is neverending. But whatever area or field of life you are in, power can simply be said to be the ability to get people do things willingly without resistance.
Persuasion is one aspect of power that gets people do what you want them to do. This is a skill that can be learned by almost anyone and does not take much time. Many people loose lots of things because they lack this basic skill you get anything you want if you have the skill to persuade other people.
There are several reasons why you may want people to do your bidding. You may be a salesman trying to gain a prospect, an employer trying to control your staff, a husband, a father or a politician trying to win a election. Whatever it is there are several times we wish people to do what we want them to do.
One great way to get people do your bidding without them resisting is through a Model developed in the ’70s by a psychiatrist called Milton H. Erickson. He developed a model of indirect hypnosis to help communicate with the mind of people. The method is called the covert or conversational hypnosis. This is a type of hypnosis that occurs in a regular discussion in which the subject or anyone that is passing will not detect that the subject is in any form of hypnotic trance. You can use this technique to get people to do whatever you want them to do.
The human mind is divided into two spheres, the conscious and the unconscious mind. The unconscious mind stores all the values and moral code of any individual. If you learn how to communicate with unconscious mind, then you can get people do what you want them to do. There are times when you said or did something and the person you talked to acted in the same direction. One typical example is mentioning of sleep in a discussion and the person you are talking to said that he was sleepy. A non verbal expression is that of yawning. You’ve probably been in a place where a person yawned and all of a sudden you felt like yawning to. These are covert way of speaking to the mind.
This article will be too small to give a detailed description of what covert hypnosis is all about. You may search the web to get more about it.