How to Make Your Boyfriend Realize Your Importance? Get the Treatment You Truly Deserve From Him
Sometimes it hurts like crazy when your boyfriend does not give you the importance you deserve. It makes you feel that he does not respect you at all. This feeling will in turn make you react in a manner that might affect your relationship. The best way to deal with the situation is to adopt certain measures that will make him see your worth. Here are some great ways to do that.
Give him a small dose of his own medicine
You don’t have to disrespect him, but what you can do is make sure that you don’t fall over yourself doing things for him. Let him feel your absence around him. Get busy and take up new hobbies that don’t involve him. Once you are not around him anymore he is going to miss you.
Let him know that he is important to you
It could be that you too have been a bit careless and selfish at times and have not bothered to let him know how important he is to you. Make him feel loved and cherished. Boost his ego and compliment him. Once he sees how much he means to you he would automatically respond to you and realize your worth.
Don’t let his attitude get you down
Just because he has been treating you like you are not important, does not mean that you lose confidence in yourself. The worst thing that you could do is start feeling intimidated and insecure. Be sure of yourself and confident of who you are. Remember that you have plenty of friends who think that you are awesome so act like you know that you are an amazing and beautiful woman. He will soon see it for himself.
Bask in the attention of your friends
If he has been pretty casual about you and not being giving you the attention you deserve, then you could show him that your friends think that you are pretty “hot”. Get your close and trusted friends to invite you and constantly remark on how wonderful you are. This will make him see you through their eyes and he will realize how important you are to him.
Become indispensable and then ditch him!
This trick generally works because by the time you become indispensable and do everything for him – he gets addicted to you without realizing it! Then all you have to do is to go away on a short vacation. He will go crazy trying to manage without you and will do everything to get you back because he will know how important you are to him. However do not come back to him if he only wants you back as a slave!
Don’t be afraid to speak your mind
It is possible that up to now you have been agreeing to every little thing he says and have shown him that you do not have a mind of your own. This type of attitude or behavior will obviously make him think little of you. Don’t be afraid to speak your mind and be frank and free to tell him that your opinion differs from him when it does. It will make him admire you.
When you can prove to look better, dress better, and have more sexual appeal than the other girls around, he will know that he has a winner! Make him proud of you. Le t him see the difference between you and the other girls and he will think that you are irreplaceable.