How to Spark His Passion and Make Him Fall in Love
What does it take to spark a man’s passion and make him fall in love? Is it possible to make a man desire you emotionally in the same way he wants you physically? Are you ready to turn your love life around and make the man of your dreams fall in love with you for good? If you’re hampered by an endless succession of failed relationships, it’s time you turned your love life around. Learn how men think about love and make your man fall in love with you today!
Before you can make a guy fall in love with you, you need to understand how he thinks about love. Often, at least at the beginning of a relationship, a man’s interest is captivated by infatuation. Although he may act as if he is in love with you, he really simply lusts after you. His primal instincts are kicked into high gear, and he’s willing to pursue you to satisfy his physical needs.
In many cases, the sexual nature of men presents difficulties for women. Because men have a strong sex drive, women often believe they need to appeal to this sex drive to get a man’s attention and to keep him interested. As a result, relationships can get stymied when they’re deeply grounded in physical intimacy.
Although the biological nature of men is unavoidable, it doesn’t mean they’re not interested in something more meaningful. Believe it or not, regardless of the way they behave in the beginning, men are still looking for the same thing you’re looking for. They don’t simply want a warm body to fulfill their desires. What they really desire, underneath whatever posturing they may do, men are looking for a deep emotional bond with a woman they connect with on every level.
That’s why holding off on sex is one of the most effective tactics you can take in new relationships. By not immediately jumping into bed, you give your man a chance to know you, and you give yourself a chance to know him. You create the opportunity for each of you to discover the more subtle ways in which you’re attracted to the other. In essence, you give friendship a chance to bloom before your innate desire for friendship can be usurped by more immediate, more superficial motives.
Although he will still desire you physically, and although you may desire him physically right now, by holding off, when you finally do decide the time is right to take your relationship to the next level, the act of love will end up being ten times as incredible, not to mention ten times as meaningful, as it would have without an emotional bond to underscore its significance.
If you give your relationship with a man time to become a friendship first, and then a romance second, you give a man the space he needs to realize why he’s in love with you, and the time he needs to fall in love with you. And that’s why taking it slow is the best way to make a man fall in love with you.