Make Him Fall in Love – The Way to Win His Affection and Keep It
Do you know how to attract a guy, but aren’t sure how to make him fall in love? Are your relationships starting strong, but fizzling out too early? Is there something that you can do to win a guy’s affection and keep it too? Although the first few dates can be nerve-racking, they are nothing compared to the frustration you can feel wondering if the guy you have fallen hard for has also fallen hard for you. So what do you do when you have found your soul-mate and you want to make him fall in love with you too? You can sit around and let fate decide, or you can apply these simple rules to help fate on its way.
See him for who he is.
Maybe he drives the kind of car that makes other women want to ride with him and other men want to be him. But things like cars and great hair are not what makes a guy your soul mate. It is important to get to know him for all that he is and to learn to love all of his qualities. No one wants to be loved because of the way that they look or the things that they own. You can compliment him on these kinds of things all that you want. But what he really wants to hear is how much you appreciate his great sense of humor, or how sexy it is that he’s smart or well-read.
Offer him companionship.
The world is full of women who really do think that men were put on earth to spend money on them. Of course, it makes you feel fantastic when he buys you something nice. But men don’t want women who they feel are only interested in them for what they can get out of them. Everyone deserves to be with someone who is genuinely interested in them for who they are. Offer him your friendship. Listen to him when he needs to talk and be there for him. Nothing will make him fall in love like knowing that he has a companion to build his life with whom he can trust.
Wait before you have sex
It’s easy to get caught up in the romance or heat of the moment and give in to your passions. But if you take the step into physical intimacy too soon you may spoil the relationship’s chances to ever become anything else. Take time to get to know your guy and to let him get to know you before sleeping together. This may not be a simple task, as guy’s tend to have one-track minds when it comes to sex. But if you put in the extra effort to work on building an emotional bond before creating a sexual one, you will find that your relationship has a solid foundation on which to build a more serious commitment.
There is no single ‘trick’ to make a man fall in love. It’s best to just be yourself and to let him be himself with you. If you don’t let yourself get caught up in all of the complications of sex and games, you’ll be able to allow him to see you for the great woman that you are. You will attract men who you are naturally compatible with.